Archive - December, 2007

Book Review: Revolutionary Parenting

Book Cover

I bought this book months ago, and have been slowly reading it while digesting each chapter slowly. I’m not a big fan of parenting books in general. Mostly because I’m perfect and don’t need anyone’s help. (Just kidding…)

I don’t like parenting books because they are usually based on the opinions of people who may or may not be an expert. While I respect opinions, I am by nature a very factual person. Research does my spirit good. Revolutionary Parenting by George Barna, fits the bill perfectly. This book combines the greatness of a researched George Barna book, but also includes many how-to’s and why’s associated with parenting.

A Spiritual Champion is an irrepressible follower of Jesus Christ who accepts the Bible as truth, lives by its principles, seeks ways to impact the world and continually deepen his or her relationship with God.

If you’re like most parents, you think you’re doing an okay job–and you probably believe you’re doing better than most.

But if your goal is to raise kids with a life–impacting faith, that may not be good enough.

Determined to learn the secrets of those who’ve raised spiritual champions, world-renowned researcher George Barna conducted a series of surveys and thousands of personal interviews with both young adults and their parents.

In the process, he was able to uncover a number of common denominators to parenting success. Some of his findings will encourage you; others will surprise you. But be forewarned–raising a spiritual champion takes Revolutionary Parenting.

A few thoughts from the book that I found interesting:

  • You cannot control the outcomes of your parenting efforts.
  • Revolutionary Parents are great coaches.
  • Raising a champion for Christ requires developing and sustaining an authentic relationship with the child, based on love and trust.
  • Use your local church as a support system, not as the leader of your children’s spiritual development journey. (And all the CP’s say ‘AMEN!’)
  • Pick your fights. Not everything merits a confrontation. Be prepared to win your battles.
  • When children ask for an explanation of your decisions or reasoning, give it to them. They deserve it, and it becomes a teaching moment for you.
  • You can’t pass on what you don’t possess; so be sure you have a vibrant relationship with God. Pursue Him and practice good spiritual habits.
  • Never push salvation on your children. Lead them towards Christ, but allow the decision to be theirs. (This so key! I wish more parents would stop backing their kids into a corner about making a decision before they’re ready.)
  • Explore different faiths with your children, pointing our similarities and differences.

Happy Something

In honor of all those offended by the Christmas story.


And on a side-note; I think ‘Mary and the Magic Baby’ might be my fantasy football team name next year.

Naughty or Nice?

Yesterday morning at church I had this particular 2nd grader who returned to church, amazingly enough after having a disastrous week with us the Sunday before Christmas. The previous Sunday he had clearly not taken the medication that he so desperately needed. (I am not joking; but rather trying to explain why he had such a terribly misbehaved day at church.)

As he was checking in at the visitor table I approached him and asked if he would follow the rules a little better this week. He assured me that he was prepared to impress me with his behaving skills, so I assured him that I would be watching him. As genuinely as possible he looked up at me and said,

“Are you going to be watching me like Santa does?”

Brain Vacation

What a great week! I have been off work all week and will return Monday morning to the office schedule I usually keep. I basically worked feverishly for a week before Christmas to prepare for an entire week off work and it was a treat. It’s been a fun week with the family; watching movies, eating ham, sleeping in late, eating pie, opening presents, eating Christmas candy, playing with my new Xbox 360, eating out at restaurants, sleeping some more, and many other things that I can’t quickly remember.

However, I feel like I’ve let my brain have too many days off. What have I read? Nothing. What have I challenged myself with this week? Nothing. Hopefully I’ll be able to get my brain back in the swing of things this week.

Merry Christmas Blog Readers

I hope everyone had a Very Merry Christmas this year. I also hope that you are preparing your New Year resolutions, because you’ll have to start them next week!

I wanted to let my readers know that the year 2008 will see some design changes on the littlepastor blog. I have never really addressed the changes that you might have noticed in regards to the overall design; but just know that it is a work in progress. I’m trying to steamline the site and make it a little more user-friendly and less graphic intensive.

The ‘What I’m Reading’ and ‘What’s on my iPod?’ lists will be returning in some form. The ads may or may not stay, but we’ll just have to see.

Any other things you might be interested in seeing on the blog? (Besides more pictures of my beautiful kids…)

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