Archives For March 2009

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I was sick last week.  (I won’t go into all the details, because I’m THAT GUY that gets grossed out easily when others feel the need to describe their bathroom experiences on twitter.)  One of my major symptoms was a raging fever.  I had taken Motrin and Tylenol cocktails all morning, and the fever took about 10 hours to finally break.  I sat in bed rocking back and forth, moaning, with aches in every joint of my body, and with goosebumps covered in a literal cold sweat.  I was miserable.  But later in the day the fever started to leave, and it was like the fog had been lifted. 

As I started to feel better, the reality of how great I felt begin to settle in.  That fever had provided a much needed jolt of perspective.  Feeling bad really helps me to appreciate when I feel good.  As I moved into feeling much better, I couldn’t shake how much is really sucked to feel bad.  Feeling good again made me appreciate a hot cup of tea, the sunlight coming through the windows, and miraculously my kids voices suddenly sounded refreshing again.  I’m not advocating that we all contract a debilitating fever, but I firmly believe that to appreciate what we have we sometimes have to get some decent perspective. 

Ask yourself, How does what I’m going through compare to what I’ve been through?  Do those around me struggle with the same things I’m struggling with?  How bad is my current situation really?

Be challenged to look back at what you’ve seen, done, and experienced; and pray that God will help us all gain some perspective moving forward.

Distance not only gives nostalgia, but perspective, and maybe objectivity.
Robert Morgan

Watchdogs Dad

March 25, 2009 — 2 Comments

Yesterday I had the opportunity to go to work in my son’s Elementary school.  He attends Lubbock-Cooper West Elementary, and this is the first year this campus has been open.  It’s been a great experience, and I can’t speak enough to the quality of my son’s public education experience so far.  One of the new things they’re doing this year is the Watchdogs program.  Basically the fathers, grandfathers, step-fathers, uncles and other father figures sign-up to work one entire day on campus sometime during the school year.  We were encouraged to use a vacation, solicit help from our employer for a community service opportunity, and to rearrange our lives to make this happen.

WATCH D.O.G.S.® (Dads Of Great Students) is the safe school initiative of the National Center for Fathering that involves fathers and father figures to help create a more safe and secure learning environment in our nation’s schools.

ImageCheck out the ABC World News story about WATCH D.O.G.S.

Who are Watchdogs? Fathers, grandfathers, step-fathers, uncles, and other father figures who volunteer to serve at least one day each year in a variety of school activities as assigned by the school principal or other administrator.

 

Here are some thoughts from my day as a Watchdog Dad:

  • It was really wonderful in it’s simplicity.  I arrived at the school at 7:30 in the morning, and was handed a schedule of classrooms, and areas I was to visit.  Easy, Easy!
  • In between different classroom visits, I was to walk the perimeter of the campus and just keep an eye out for whatever may or may not be happening.
  • It was heartbreaking to meet so many kids who told me their Dad’s would NOT be a watchdog.  One girl even asked me, “Are you going to get fired from your job for being here?”
  • The t-Shirt they made me wear was horrible!  I understand the need for us to be clearly visible to teachers and students, but I felt like a big 1980’s walking billboard with this cartoon dog on my shirt.

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  • I spent time in a 4th grade science class, hung up artwork for a 3rd grade teacher, fixed a desk for another 3rd grade teacher, read to a class of 3rd graders during snack time, opened 100 chocolate milk containers for Kindergarten lunch period, played kickball in Gym class, did multiplication flash cards with 3rd graders (and addition with 1st graders), helped kids in a 2nd grade class get their backpacks ready to go home at the end of the day.
  • It’s really cool to now know everything that goes on in and around my son’s school.  I feel like I met so many more people than I do when I go on field trips or classroom parties.
  • The best thing about the entire experience was the impression I made on my son.  He acted like his dad was a celebrity, and kept telling me all day how glad he was that I was a Watchdog.  Cracked me up!
  • I saw dozens of kids that attend our church, and as a Children’s Pastor I must say that it was really cool to see our kids in a different environment.  I think it freaked some of them out a little that I was at their school, which I think is cool.

birthday Today is my birthday.  Some are glad I was born on March 18th in the year of 1976, and I’m sure some are still trying to decide how they feel about my presence.  As I think over the past 33 years of my life, I’m really only thinking back 20 years, because I don’t remember much of anything before the age of 12 or 13.  And then in the past 20 years I really only remember the highlights.  You know things like my wedding day, birth of my kids, Dallas Cowboy playoff victories, international mission trips, graduations, job opportunities, moving about 15 times, and various other memorable events.  It seems that the farther I get from the past, the harder it is to remember things. 

Which leads me to one of my favorite birthday quotes of all-time. 

"This day I completed my thirty first year, and conceived that I had in all human probability now existed about half the period which I am to remain in this Sublunary world. I reflected that I had as yet done but little, very little, indeed, to further the happiness of the human race, or to advance the information of the succeeding generation. I viewed with regret the many hours I have spent in indolence, and now sorely feel the want of that information which those hours would have given me had they been judiciously expended. but since they are past and cannot be recalled, I dash from me the gloomy thought, and resolved in future, to redouble my exertions and at least endeavor to promote those two primary objects of human existence, by giving them the aid of that portion of talents which nature and fortune have bestowed on me: or in future, to live for mankind, as I have heretofore lived for myself."

-Meriwether Lewis, on his 31st birthday

Meriwether Lewis wrote this in his journal while trekking across the previously undiscovered terrain of the Western United States.  The quote is significant to me because it reminds me to look towards the future, not being held back by the mistakes of my past.  I love the line, “to live for mankind, as I have heretofore lived for myself.”  As I trek towards my mid-thirties I will continue to do the things you do when you’re my age.  I will take my Omega-3 Fish Oil to keep my cholesterol in check, I’ll visit my Doctor annually to keep up with my overall health, and I’ll remember not to eat Mexican food when travelling long distances in a car.

But I’m encouraged by Meriwether Lewis’s statement and I will really look forward to opportunities to redouble my efforts over the next 33 years.

4leafclover I’m so pumped about being at The Orange Conference the last week of April, and you can still join me; and others much more worthy of being joined!  If you haven’t yet registered for The Orange Conference, then go do it NOW.  In fact currently there are 2,909 people registered for Orange.  Think about that, 2,909 leaders of children, teenagers, and churches coming together to inspire each other and our communities to reach families with the life changing message of Jesus Christ. 

The big St. Patrick’s day news today is that if The Orange Conference gets 3,000 registered, then they are going to give the church that registers person number 3,000 four FREE registrations to the conference and to the pre-conference.  And it’s your choice, they’ll either refund you the cost of 4 people or give you 4 additional passes to take more of your team.  Somebody has to be the 3,000th person to sign up, right?  Why not you?

This deal is only good today, so go register RIGHT NOW!

Are you ORANGE yet? Check out www.TheOrangeConference.com for details.

Puppet Shows Gone Bad

March 13, 2009 — 3 Comments

 

 

I want to apologize in advance for the nightmares this Christian Puppet show will cause.  To help make up for it, I encourage you to check out the coolest puppet show I’ve seen. 

 

 

 

(HT: SamLuce)