Archive - August, 2009

How People Find Me

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A few days ago, I was asked by someone how most people find my site.  Do they visit directly, and what search terms help them find my site.  I use Google Analytics and Woopra to gather stats on those people visiting my site.  I’ve used Google Analytics for years, but tend to depend on Woopra for most of my pertinent stats.  I visit every week or so to see what’s happening in the online world of www.jonathancliff.com.  (I think I’m running GoingUp.com to track some stats, but that’s mostly out of curiosity about the new service.)  I still think Woopra is the best hands-down.  It has an easy to use WordPress plugin, and the stand alone program is wonderful, both in Windows and Mac.  It has so many features, that I’m afraid I’ll never get to all of them.  But again, that explains most of everything on these Internets, huh?

Most of my visitors are visiting this site directly, but a few still happen through on random searches.  Here are a list of the more interesting search terms used to find www.jonathancliff.com (using data over the last 6 months.):

“jonathan cliff” -easily the most popular search term.  Go figure…

“wet pants” -Should I be worried about this?  I quit wetting my pants years ago.  The kicker is that this is the 4th most popular search term.

“children’s pastor” -It’s what I do.

“wetting pants” -Here we are again.  And it’s still in the top 10!

“att uverse reviews” -I get tons of traffic from THIS post.  It might be my most popular post, ever.

“super conundrum” -Not sure what this is.

“family community church sucks” -I don’t know who this church is, and I most definitely do NOT think they suck.  Whoever they are.

“clown with chainsaw” -The most popular post in Children’s Ministry Online history.  Read it HERE.

“has a big brain” -This needs no explanation.  It’s obviously that when looking for people with big brains, you’d find me.

“increasing success by lowering expectation” -The one I’m most proud of.

And we have a theme:

“christian puppets” -What were they before they were Christian puppets?

“pastors of puppets” -Not the job title I signed up for.

“christain puppet show”

“sam luce puppets” -I blame this on Sam Luce.

“coolest puppet clothes”

“why children love puppets”

“at what age do kids stop enjoying puppets”

“1991 dallas cowboys training camp roster” -You might not know this about me.  But I was there in 1991.  Dallas Cowboys ball boy for the Summer of 1991…

“fear of forgetting” -I’m thinking this is related to one of my favorite posts.

“church llano estacado johnathan cliff” -They just misspelled my name a little, but this is me.  It’s dusty here.

“kid wet pants” -Here we are again.  Wet pant theme continues…

“how to keep parents away” -Sorry google searchers, but I still haven’t figured this one out.

and we end with the longest search term I might have ever seen.  I promise I have not added anything to this:

“imagining something may be the first step in making it happen, but it takes the real time and real efforts of real people to learn things, make things, turn thoughts into deeds or visions into inventions.”

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So Internet nerds.  How have people found you?

Senator Kennedy at Liberty University

In case you haven’t heard, Senator Kennedy passed away this week.  I’m sure that many who read this blog, might find him to not be representative of their political beliefs (as he isn’t fully representative of my own political convictions.)  However, Senator Kennedy was a profound influence in government for many, many years.  If you look into his political history, you would find that he was a voice of collaboration on many issues between differing parties.  Nonetheless, I found this on God & Country Report at www.usnews.com.  (I think he found it HERE.)  Whether you agree with his politics or not, I think this speech was a great one.  Given to a crowd he isn’t used to speaking to.

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Nearly 25 years before it became fashionable for Democrats to engage religious right leaders, Ted Kennedy delivered a remarkable speech on faith and politics at Jerry Falwell’s Liberty University (then called Liberty Baptist College).

Speaking in 1983, amid the first wave of modern Christian right activism—which Falwell helped unleash—Kennedy pushed back against the fledgling movement but also took on his own party’s growing secularist base. The separation of church and state, Kennedy said, “as vital as it is, is not a simplistic and rigid command . . . [it] cannot mean an absolute separation between moral principles and political power.”

The senator from Massachusetts outlined four tests for determining a proper religious role in politics. Almost a quarter-century later, Barack Obama struck a strikingly similar tone in his first major address on religion in politics, made to a gathering of Jim Wallis’s Sojourners. “To say that men and women should not inject their ‘personal morality’ into public policy debates,” Obama said,” is a practical absurdity.”

Video of the Kennedy speech’s first few minutes reveals how comfortable he was in the lion’s den, racking up laughs and applause:

Despite all that’s been written and said about Democrats “getting religion” in recent years and about religion in politics entering a post-religious-right era, it’s hard to imagine a liberal Democrat speaking at Liberty University today.

Read Kennedy’s full address here.

The Kid Whisperer

I often get asked about where parents can find resources to assist them in the journey of raising their kids.  This is going to sound strange, but I think a dog behavior show might be the most valuable resource available.  Seriously.

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My family and I love to watch The Dog Whisperer.  Have you seen this show?  It’s a show on National Geographic TV, and it features Cesar Millan showing up to help solve dog problems.  It’s quite a sight to see these disruptive dogs become well-behaved members of the home.  He uses a few different techniques, much of which includes simply taking charge of the dog.  Go figure, huh?  He says he “rehabilitates dogs and trains humans.” I think what he does is super applicable to parents.

He is constantly warning dog owners to not let emotions dictate how you treat your dog.  He always references humans feeling sorry for the dog, and he says that prevents us from dealing with the dog in a dog-appropriate way.  Parents, can you see this coming?  As parents we can easily be swayed to give our children things based out of our guilt, fear, or both at the same time.  While emotions are a valuable part of any relationship, when raising children we need to stay in the clear.  For instance, let’s say your kid steals something from a friend at school.  He’s caught red-handed, and confesses right away.  Do you back off on any consequences because he’s so upset about his own bad choice, or do you make him face that consequence?  I’ve seen parents be so swayed by the emotions of a situation, that they fail to provide a strong covering of discipline for their kids.

The Dog Whisperer also points out that dogs live “in the moment.” They respond to strong leadership and require “rules, boundaries and limitations” to feel secure and part of the “pack.”  I feel that I could exchange the word dogs, with children.  Am I alone? As a person that works with other peoples kids, let me tell you that this is lacking!  I often hear parents say, “My kids are so much better behaved for you than they are for me.”  I’m not casting magical obedience spells on their children, I just treat them like a dog.  That sounds bad, doesn’t it?  I meant to say that I provide strong leadership and require rules, boundaries and limitations.  Does that sound better?

Cesar always begins the show with an observation of the relationship between the dog and their humans. He often finds that the humans are the ones that must learn a different way to handle their pets.  I have three kids, and each kid forces me to parent them in a different way.  While there are certain standards that are the same for every one of them, I also can’t expect the same reaction out of each of them.  For example, my daughter requires more rules than my boys.  For some reason she seems to want to push the envelope on things and the boys just take it as it comes. Different methods for the same overall goal.

While these lessons learned on The Dog Whisperer are great for parents, but I also want to add that the snapping, shushing, and finger pointing can come in handy with kids as well.  I’m just sayin’.

Creative Volunteer Training

Kidsplace UnscriptedOne of the things I’ve struggled with over the years of working with volunteer leaders, has been how I could train my volunteers (leaders, partners, whatever you call them at your church) without stopping down their schedules for afternoons at a time.  My experience tells me that when holding a training meeting those people that most need the training don’t show up.  It’s a strange phenomenon actually.  (If you’re that volunteer that has missed the last dozen training meetings at your church, then consider yourself the person I’m talking about!)

I’ve also tried emails, but I found that most of them were not reading the emails all the way to the end.  How do I know this?  Because I got sneaky and started hiding messages at the bottom of the email offering Starbucks, Sonic Drive-In, and Smoothie King incentives to those first 5 people to respond to my email.  When nobody but your wife responds, something isn’t getting through to the people!

Over the past few months, I’ve tried something quite different.  Different for me anyways.  I’ve been sending training videos out to a portion of our Sunday Morning volunteer team.  The videos are rarely longer than 4-5 minutes and are filmed in various locations around the church.  I’ve been testing it out specifically with the team that serves during our largest gathering of Elementary children; at the 4th service on Sunday.  In total this team represents 13 people, so it’s not a small team; but it’s not too large that we don’t all know each other.  (That being said, I could use an additional 13 leaders, if you know what I mean.)

Here are some of the things that these silly training videos have allowed me to do:

  1. The videos have opened up opportunity for more “fellowship only”  time.  My team loves to hang out, and now when we gather we simply want to hang out.  No agenda, no training, no meeting; just good old fashioned fellowship time!
  2. I’ve worked hard to not let the videos become stale and tired.  I’ve attempted to make them personal, by being funny and letting my mistakes just stay on the finished product.  I’m going for informal, not formal.  I fill it with titles that poke fun at my mistakes and my looks.  I’m not afraid to laugh at my own expense, so it comes naturally.
  3. I’ve used the videos to push upcoming events, and remind my leaders about  things I’ve reminded them about 100 times before.  Repetition is the key to good promotion!
  4. I’ve taken requests from the leaders about what small group leading training tips they need.  I’ve gotten great ideas for topics.  For example, I’ve covered how to get kids to open up and talk, how to control an unruly group, how to pray with children, and how to adjust small group materials to different age groups.

Now for the obligatory disclaimers:

I still see us doing some in-person training down the line, and when we do I hope that I can make it worth their time and energy to attend.  I don’t see myself offering a in-house training more than twice a year.  (I’m settled on maybe once a year.)  I also email the links to the videos through Constant Contact, so that I can see who has opened and watched the videos.  I’ve even gone to some leaders that never opened them, and inquired about why they are not watching the training.

Now in all honesty, you’d have to talk to one of my leaders to gauge how worthwhile they’ve really been.  If you can find them and get them to open up, then do share!  The feedback that I’ve gotten is that they like them, and I keep getting requests for more.

I’m sharing a few of my videos here, but the rest are at VIMEO.  It’s quite amazing what you can do with a camcorder and iMovie these days, huh?

So how do you get information to your volunteers? What have you tried with success?

Would something like this work for you?

Orange Baby Steps -Part 2

We’ve been making some minor changes in our Ministry philosophy at Trinity Church.  Yesterday I laid out the first step I took to help shift the thinking of those all around me. There is a great desire to move from creating programs for kids, into creating programs for parents and kids.  We are early in the process, and have taken some very small steps to make this happen.  These next three steps have been tiny, but huge all at the same time.  What did we do?

  1. The big programming change we made started this Summer, and in reality it wasn’t a huge change.  We simply changed the “drop-off your kids” events into “Family Time” events.  It was simple really.  That event that in the past would cost $20 a kid to go to the amusement park with the Children’s Ministry leaders, is now only $5 a person and the entire family in encouraged to attend.  We budgeted this year to eat some of the expense so the entire family could attend (I could totally make a comment about how eliminating VBS changed our budget for the better, but I won’t.)  We saw double attendance from year’s past, and have seen the families in our church soften towards our leaders.  This isn’t rocket science people.  We’re trying to open the door to our families to be together, and not just create events that compete against everything else happening inside and outside the church.  If this is all we do, I know it won’t be enough; but we’re taking baby steps here.
  2. We’ve also changed our cattle call of a Child Dedication service to more of a parent training event.  What happens on stage on a Sunday Morning will be about the same as it’s always been, but what parents have to do to get to that stage has changed.  I know that to some this might sound so simple, but we just asked that all parents desiring their child be dedicated attend a parenting class.  The class will be about 75 minutes in length, and include a few minutes of table discussion.  No dinner is served, no public speaking by those in attendance is needed, just their presence and a desire for them to be spiritual leaders in their home.  Simple really.  There is lots of room for improvement, and it will be tweaked to further benefit our parents as it grows.
  3. We taken away the drop your kid off Baptism training, and instead put tools in the hands of our parents.  We’re distributing information (online only) that will help parents discuss whether their child is ready to accept Jesus as their Lord, and help them introduce baptism to their children.  We’ll still do occasional large group altar calls, and I will always be available to help families that want their hand held during this journey; but we’re really surrendering the main responsibility to the parents on this one.  I should probably say that after mom/dad/grandparent/guardian use the tools to talk with their kid, I will be meeting individually with each family before an actual baptism takes place.

These are some of the simple steps that we’ve taken to reintroduce our families to spiritually leading their own families.  Simple, right?

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