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Web Safety in 2013

I'm a dad that wants his kids to have access to the world wide web. I want them checking email, watching fun youtube videos, looking up origami instructions, and discovering all the mistakes on Wikipedia. I want all these things for my kids, because they are the things I enjoy.

I'm also a dad that wants my kids safe. I don't want them accidentally seeing things that ruin their innocence, insult their intelligence, and expose them prematurely to foreign concepts. I want my kids secure, because these are the things I want for myself as well.


Here are some Internet Safety steps we've taken in our house to lead our kids (and myself) well.

OpenDNSThis is slightly complicated to explain. Go open an account with OpenDNS, then follow their instructions to setup new DNS servers on your wireless router, and then play around with the customized content filters. When you're completed with setup, it will filter the web for every device that connects to your wi-fi router. It's really not that hard, and if it's too hard for you then pay a friend $50 to come over and set it up for your family. Totally worth it. iPads, iPhones, computers, and Kindle Fire's are all protected with one step!Google Safe Search Why would you not just use what the Internet Search Provider to the world offers? It's easy and a no-brainer. You can even lock it down so it's ALWAYS on!MiFrenz This is the most poorly designed email clients I've ever seen. The logos are horrible, the program is blocky and disgusting looking, the name is comical, but it's does what it's supposed to. It allows me to use any email account, and filter who can send my kids messages. It gives me 100% control over the email my kids receive and send. MiFrenz just works, really it does.Macbook Parental Controls This is another of those must haves. Setup a user account on the computer you use, that is only for the kids. In our house the password for the Cliff Kids is “SMART“, and that step alone lets my kids know how important the wise choice is online.

That's not all, we also regularly use the following: Timed Access Control on my Time Capsule WiFi Router, I check my kids devices (yes, you can do this when you're the parent), all Internet-enabled devices are used in public spaces with other people around, and then we reward responsibility with landmark freedoms as they age.

Anything our parents would add to these guardrails? I'd love to hear what else is being used!


Jonathan Cliff is married to his wife Starr and they together live out their days with two sons and a daughter. Jonathan serves as one of the Pastors at Grace Community Church in Clarksville, Tennessee; where he works with leaders throughout the city to help develop Christian community that leads to deep and meaningful spiritual friendships. His journey has been an adventurous one, having served in the local church for 15 years in family ministry developing leaders, building environments for kids and students to belong, and encouraging parents to take big spiritual steps with their families.