I’ve watched the organization Plywood People from a distance over the past few years, and I love what they do and all that they’re about. I was excited to find out that their director Jeff Shinabarger is releasing a book this March entitled More or Less: Choosing a Lifestyle of Excessive Generosity. In anticipation of that book they have released a preview video titled, “Enough Time.”
Keith Ferrin had a very special guest post this week about the #1 Way to Help our Kids Love the Bible. It’s all part of a great new book that Keith has written, Like Ice Cream: The Scoop on Helping the Next Generation Fall in Love with God s Word.
That book is great and what’s almost as great is that Keith wants to give away some books! Follow the instructions in the Giveaway Widget below. It will give you an opportunity to earn entries for the giveaway. You earn entries through twitter tweets, facebook likes, and generally being an awesome blog-reading nerd. Enjoy!
I’ve got a very special guest post today from Keith Ferrin. Keith has recently written a book called, “Like Ice Cream: The Scoop with Helping the Next Generation Fall in Love with God’s Word”. With a subtitle like that there is no explanation needed!
The #1 Way to Help Your Kids Love the Bible
At least once a week, my wife will sigh, roll her eyes, and say, Keith, knock it off! You know the kids are going to do exactly what they see you do! (In fact, it happened last night.) She s right.
It s true, isn t it? In fact, I am blown away by how much they pick up even the littlest things. The way I stand. A certain word I use to describe something. A look. A gesture. It s a bit creepy to be honest.
So why would I think that loving the Bible would be any different?
The #1 way to get your kids to love the Bible is NOT to take them to a good church (though you should probably do that). It s not to get them plugged into a solid children s or youth ministry (though I highly recommend that too). It s not to make sure they learn their weekly verses (again not a bad idea).
Hands down, the #1 way to get your kids to love the Bible is to love it yourself.
Before you say, Yeah, yeah I know hear me out. We say we believe it is true. We say it is reliable. We say it is applicable. But do we loveit? I know I didn t for the first 20 years I hung out with Jesus. And yet take a look at the sentence smack dab in between Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and Impress them on your children.
These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. (Deut. 6:6, emphasis added)
God knows that if we don t love it, neither will our kids. So how do we do it? First off, this is a long haul issue. If you believe the Bible but don t love it that won t change overnight. That said here are two ideas to get you started.
Idea One: Make an honest assessment about how you FEEL about the Bible?
This is not how you think about the Bible or even what you believe about the Bible. Do you like it? Do you enjoy your time in God s Word. Tell God how you really feel about the Bible. Then tell a friend. Sit down and have an honest conversation with your spouse or small group. Similar to any exercise plan, success starts with assessment.
Idea Two: Stop studying and start reading.
This isn t forever. But it might be several months. Sometimes we get so into studying a book, theme, or person that we forget to enjoy the story. In fact, many of us have never gotten lost in The Story.
It s like analyzing the scenes of a movie before we watch the movie. Absurd. You might learn some things, but it certainly won t be much fun. Don t we do that to the Bible all the time? There are verses we can ramble about forever, but if someone asked what that particular book was about, we d offer a blank stare.
So pick a book a whole book and read it in one sitting. For most books of the Bible this is less than a 30-minute commitment. Or better yet, simply start at the beginning (Genesis, not Matthew J), set aside a time (at least 20-30 minutes) and just read. Don t read all the study notes in your Bible. Just read the Bible. After 20-30 minutes, bookmark the page, and keep going tomorrow.
Watch what happens. It won t take long before you will be enjoying the Bible more than ever. Once you like it more, you ll talk about it more. You ll apply it more. And your kids will notice. And once that happens, the chances of them falling in love with the Bible will have just gone up. Way, way up.
Keith Ferrin is a storyteller, author, blogger, and speaker whose passion is helping churches, families, and students fall in love with God s Word. He holds to the belief that the Bible isn t just true, but it s also heaps of fun. You can see some clips and connect with him on his blog (www.keithferrin.com), Twitter (@KeithFerrin), or Facebook (/KeithFerrin)
If love means never having to say you’re sorry, leadership means always having to say you’re sorry.
I am a confident person. I lean towards over-confidence. When that leaning leans into those around me, I hurt people. When I hurt people I need to say I’m sorry. It may sound like a cycle, but each time I have to say ‘I’m sorry’, God continues to help change, mold, and shape my character just a little more like Him. It’s never easy, but it’s always necessary.
On that note here are a few thoughts on truly being sorry:
Don’t ever let the words, “I’ve been meaning to apologize for a while…” come out of your mouth. Don’t commit the double-apology and apologize for your lack of apology. It marginalizes the effect. When you know you need to set things right, just apologize quickly. If you’re late with an apology, just start from where you are and say you’re sorry. It may be late, but it still may be necessary.
Beware of the Sorry Disclaimer. That’s when you apologize, but then throw a “But you really made me do it when you…” Don’t place any statement that in any way places any blame on the person you’ve hurt. If you feel you have to do this, then just skip the apology. This disclaimer does nothing for the person you hurt, it only further alienates them.
Do it in person, whenever possible. If the person you need to apologize is in anyway reachable, then go to them. If you aren’t able to lay eyes on them, then make the phone call. If you don’t have time for the phone call, then wait til you do. Letters, emails, and smoke screens don’t communicate your heart like your own voice will.
2012 was a year of great transition for my family. We left the familiar and moved into the adventure of something new. We are 4 months in, and my family has proved more than up for the challenge. Part of our transition has been to move on from where we’ve been. Not just our physical presence, but where our hearts, thoughts, and prayers have been for years.
Here are some ideas from one who has worked hard to move on and to move along well from where I’ve been. This list doesn’t assume that you wanted to move on, nor does it presume to think that you moved out from where you were well.
- Be positive. I don’t care who you are or what you did before, there is always some positive to you leaving. Maybe the positive is in who gets the new opportunity with you leaving, or maybe it’s with the new place you’re leaving for. There is always positive, and it’s your job to find it. Would you want people to speak well of you after you’ve left? Then work hard to speak well of where you’ve been.
- Walk slowly. A rushed exit is always a bad exit. Now, if you were hurriedly moved along from where you were by someone else; then you need to walk slowly to your next destination. There is no need to hurry. Take the time to make a long walk to your next adventure, taking no short-cuts to get to your dream.
- Pray. The hardest thing for me was leaving the people and work that I had invested so much time with. You can’t turn that off quickly, and you should actually never turn it off as far as prayer is concerned. Pray for that ongoing building project, pray for the leaders that took your place, pray for the servants that fill your absence, and pray for the investment you made. It’s just smart stewardship, and moving along doesn’t mean you leave it all behind.
- Be honest with yourself. There are things you need to do differently in your new place and there are things you need to change about yourself. Your experiences where you’ve been are a big part of helping you discover what these things are.
- Move on. It seems obvious, but there comes a time that you just need to move on. You can’t change the past, you can’t correct mistakes, you can’t influence where you no longer have influence, and you are being called to something new. Find that new something and move on from where you’ve been.
I know that others have moved on before. Some well, and some not so well. I’d love to hear what those more experienced than myself could add. What is some good advice for moving on well?