Gathering Session #3 || Dr. Gregg Jantz


The Story in the Home, Church, and World

Dr. Jantz is the founder of a Counseling Center for families.

Addiction is just a symptom of pain. Helping individuals find healing first, is the priority. When the person finds healing, the addiction can be healed as well.

What is our role with hurting, broken families? We have to ask the Lord to give us discernment to know where we play the role in their life; while being careful to not get overly involved in their mess. Their problem is often times bigger than what we can handle. Direct families to the right people and help.

We have to be careful not to always direct people to US. That won’t help them.

Things to look for in broken people:

  • Are there patterns that keep repeating in their life?
  • What do they really need? Look closely.
  • Anger, Fear, Guilt are 3 BIG things. Which one of these do we see (or feel)?

We have to be on guard that when we are helping others, that we don’t drain ourselves. We have to self-guard our lives. We have to have our own lives in order before we give ourselves to others.

 

New Book Discussion: The Stranger in Your House

A depressed teenager is an unpredictable teenager. The book is primarily for parents of teenagers, helping them manage.

A teens main job is to test boundaries. Do we have them? Boundaries on Technology are the most important ones to set now. We have to help our kids keep perspective in a world screaming for attention.

Examples of technology boundaries:

  • No smartphones at school.
  • Master Password that parents know and manage.
  • Talk often about what’s appropriate.
  • No texting in the morning; and no texting during the week.
  • Strict on video games that are in the house.
  • Family decided together what Tech Boundries will be.

Is there a common root cause of teenage depression? Does Church cause it?

  • Inappropriate relationships, through school, friends, technology. As a church we need to promote healthy relationships.

 

keynote-speakerDR. GREGG JANTZ

Dr. Gregg Jantz is the best-selling author of 21 books, including the newly released, The Stranger in Your House, a valuable resource for parents as they see beyond the closed-room years of adolescence and open the door to hope. He is the founder of The Center for Counseling and Health Resources, and a nationally known speaker.
www.drgregoryjantz.comwww.aplaceofhope.com

 

Gathering Breakout #1 || Michelle Anthony

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7 Pillars of Family Ministry Philosophy
*Family Ministry for Spiritual Formation in this Generation

Philosophy is focusing on the answers to the why questions. What are the reasons we’ve got into Family Ministry in the first place.
Philos – LOVE  ||  Sophia – WISDOM

Philosophy is the love of wisdom. Let’s be in love with the why of what we do, not the what of what we do.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. His praise endures forever! (Psalm 111:10 ESV)

1. Family is Primary // God s Design for faith replication is through the context of the family (Deut. 6; Ps. 78) while the church  plays a supportive/equipping role to this endeavor (Eph. 4:12).
2. Spiritual Formation // Formational approach… not just information. Lifelong transformation is the goal. Spiritual formation is about helping kids build a life-long relationship with God.

This means giving them a strong foundation in biblical knowledge and being intentional about creating space for kids to encounter the living God. Through the process of spiritual formation, we desire children to open their hearts to God, learn to discern His voice, have a desire to obey Him, and to do so in the power the Holy Spirit offers to each believer.

3. Holy Spirit is the Teacher // We recognize that the Holy Spirit is the primary teacher of our children. Parents and leaders have the opportunity to create “environments” where the Holy Spirit is free to move, teach, and lead. They have the privilege of coming alongside what the Holy Spirit is doing in the life of a child

Create worship response stations and give kids open-ended questions that spur their own heart.

4. Authority of Scripture // The Bible is God s truth for daily living. God s Word holds instruction for children to interpret their lives through the lens of God s character and will. Are resources should be true to content and context and allow kids to investigate Scripture for themselves so they will feel confident to share His Word with others.

We want a generation that understands their Bible, and how it relates to their own lives. Helping kids learn through multiple forms of learning; auditory, tactile, etc…

5. The Big God Story // Unpacking God’s Word as one chronological storyline where relationship and redemption are at the center. Tying OT to the NT. We define the “The Big God Story” as God’s ENTIRE story. It incorporates all of history, stretching from Genesis to Revelation and beyond. In the past, Christian instruction has often told fragmented stories of God, Jesus, or other people in the Bible, as if they were not part of a greater narrative.

We define the “The Big God Story” as God’s ENTIRE story. It incorporates all of history, stretching from Genesis to Revelation and beyond. In the past, Christian instruction has often told fragmented stories of God, Jesus, or other people in the Bible, as if they were not part of a greater narrative

6. God-Centered // Because it is one story about God s love and redemption, we make God the main focus of every lesson and resource! Each lesson is titled by something we know about God from a specific Bible passage. The emphasis is on God, not the supporting cast in the story (ex. God Is Victorious vs. David and Goliath).

Understanding what we know about God by the way He has worked in the lives of people and circumstances in the Bible is formational in our lives today.

7. Ministry Support // Partner with the local church to Inspire, Equip, and Support with resources for home and church. Stay in Conversations about what we do that brings us into community across the world.

Gathering Session #2 || Michelle Anthony

The Power Behind the Story & Storytellers

How we teach and explain the Gospel is really just a story.

Believing in the details of the Gospel isn’t enough. We aren’t selling the Gospel, we’re are telling a story of the Gospel and inviting others into this story. It’s not a speech to memorize, it’s a life we live.

There is an ‘upper story’ that is bigger than the everyday story we see.

John 16:5 “I am going to Him who sent me….but the truth is its better that I go. Another is coming!”

We were never intended to tell the story of the Gospel without the Holy Spirit leading us. NEVER. The spirit of Truth guides us.

Holy Spirit would bring all things together. He is a unifier. Yet we oftentimes stand in opposition to the Holy Spirits purpose. We have to unify ourselves.

“The Church moved into the Entertainment sector, and away from the Holy Spirits leading. Most of our churches can be explained away without ever mentioning the power of the Holy Spirit.” Francis Chan ‘Forgotten God’

We are charged to look different than our sinful culture. Do we?

The trail of following the Holy Spirit will take us somewhere we’ve never been, and it will force into a level of dependence we’ve never been in before.

It’s time to ask our kids to do more than just ‘try harder’, we’ve got to let Christ be formed inside them.


NOTE: Much of this session is covered in much greater detail in Michelle’s new book, Dreaming for More for the Next Generation.

Dr. Michelle Anthony is the Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook. Michelle is the author of The Big God Story, Spiritual Parenting book and DVD curriculum, the co-author of A Theology of Family Ministry. She has over 20 years of practical church ministry/leadership experience as a Children s and Family Pastor and is currently serving as an Ambassador for ROCKHARBOR church.

@truinspiration || www.michelleanthony.org

 

 

Gathering Session #1 || Chris Brown

The Gospel and the Redemptive Story || Mark 5

Jesus casts demon out of man. Jesus was able to give the man some dignity.

Jesus healing the blind man. Everyone begins to seek out Christ to see what this is all about. Father of a sick daughter begs Jesus to come and heal his family. Jesus goes.  On the way… Mark 5:24 || Woman seeks out and touches Jesus’ cloak. She is healed. Jesus knows it immediately. He calls for the woman, and she trembling with fear tells him the whole truth.

Jesus calls her “Daughter” , thereby staking a claim to her as part of his family.

In the midst of all of this is the father, trying to get Jesus to his daughter. Then someone says, “Your daughter is dead. It’s too late.”

Vs36. “Don’t be afraid, just believe.”

Jesus brings Peter, James, and John along to the daughters room. Jesus claims she sleeping, and the crowd laughs at him. He sends them away and in front of her family calls her awake, and she comes alive. He tells the parents to feed her.  Then Jesus distances from the whole thing, and asks that they don’t tell anyone about her healing. Jesus cared for her future, didn’t want her to take the label of to be “used to be dead.”

One chapter of the whole Gospel. Just one. In one day, Jesus forever altars the future lives of the demoniac, women with blood disease, and family of dead little girl.

It continues and continues and continues. The Gospel spreading through the actions of Christ. Redemption happens, the Gospel grows.

When the Gospel happens, the stories continue

The Holy Spirit is the one leading now. Would we even know it if the Holy Spirit left our ministries? Do we let Holy Spirit lead?

May we just ask the God leads us. Let him use our gifts to further the Gospel.

Chris Brown is a Senior Pastor and a Teaching Pastor at North Coast Church in Vista, CA, and co-teaches at Bethel Seminary. Chris loves bringing the Bible to life with his gifts as a communicator and storyteller, but most evident in his teaching is his passion for sharing a real and authentic journey with Jesus.

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A CONFERENCE FOR:

  • SENIOR PASTORS

  • CHILDREN’S AND FAMILY MINISTRY PASTORS

  • CHILDREN’S AND FAMILY MINISTRY DIRECTORS

  • VOLUNTEERS

The Gathering is the premiere event focusing on spiritual formation and family ministry. With limited seating to allow for great conversations, you won t want to miss this exciting opportunity to network and collaborate with other ministry leaders and gain practical insights for your church.

The Gathering is a chance to be collaborative, focused on philosophy with experiential learning opportunities, hearing from professional ministry leaders in the area of family ministry and spiritual formation, while being invited into a transformative ministry time to spiritually nourish the leaders who attend. This is a fresh opportunity to experience ministry and not just talk about it, while being refreshed for the next season ahead.

 

 

Away I Go

This morning I’m getting on a plane so I can go wait at another airport for 3 hours to then get on another plane and then eventually find myself at “The Gathering.”  The Gathering is a special collection of family ministry leaders from around the country.  David C. Cook explains it this way:

The Gathering exists for the purpose of inspiring, equipping, and supporting the faith community in order that they may become awakened to their role as ambassadors of God, His kingdom movement, and spiritual formation through family ministry within the local church.

I’m excited about being there for a bunch of reasons, but I’ve been narrowed it down to really just ONE thing.  I don’t know anyone teaching, speaking, or leading there. When I was invited to participate, and was having to decide (along with my family) if this was something worthy of me being away; the really big draw was the opportunity to hear some voices I’m not familiar with.

It’s important to note that I do NOT work for a curriculum provider.  I’m NOT in the “business” of church ministry, and I’m NOT selling anything.  Sure, I have my favorites and I have the resources I use at my church.  But at heart, I’m a man that has a burden for the Next Generations in my local church.  The Gathering is about tapping into that passion I have, and helping me lead better from where I am.  I’m looking forward to a week that helps me increase my leadership to families in a new way.

I’ll be blogging a bunch here over the next few days, so stay tuned for some new fresh voices for you as well.  Maybe you’ll hear something you’ve never heard before, and most likely it comes from somebody you’ve never heard of.