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My kids live in a mistake filled world, and if I’m not careful they could drown in enough mistakes that they can’t tell right from wrong over time. As their parent, it becomes my mission then to adjust the error in a biology teachers opinion about when life begins, correct the low expectations of what their friend says are good qualities in a girlfriend, and showing grace to a neighbor confused about what makes them valuable.
When the people in their schools and the kids in our neighborhood begin to interpret life in ways that are not God-centered, I then have to spot the mistake and correct them. This isn’t about standing on soapboxes and shouting the truth to a random passersby. This isn’t an advocacy for more Christian schools or more church services.
This is me suggesting that we could engage our world in a way that helps our kids begin to define the mistakes all around them, because eventually they’re going to have to do this on their own. The key lays in getting your kids to open up and tell you much of what’s happening in their own lives.
Here are some things we’ve done in our home to try and “Spot the Mistakes”
- Find the times to talk. There are times where we can get our kids to share about school, and neighborhood things. There are also times that don’t work. Find what they are for your kids and then bounce down to this next tip…
- Ask some questions. Real live questions like: “What were you talking about with them?” I’d suggest you don’t wait til you have teenagers before trying this method. It has to be a question that you sincerely care about the answer, and not an answer you’ll use to later punish them.
- Don’t act shocked. Your kids will say some things that are crazy. I’m talking crazy on both sides of right and wrong. If you learn to stay calm and listen, I guarantee you that you will eventually have the opportunity to speak truth towards something less than crazy.
- Know your stuff. Don’t just get good at finding the mistakes, get good as bringing wisdom when it’s needed. Becoming wise, begins with knowing Christ and the ways of the wise. Could I make a parenting suggestion? Read Proverbs. Read it every day. Read it with your kids. Make wisdom like a brother and sister
1 Timothy 1:5-11 // The whole point of what weâ€™re urging is simplyÂ loveâ€”love uncontaminated by self-interest and counterfeit faith, a life open to God. Those who fail to keep to this point soon wander off into cul-de-sacs of gossip. They set themselves up as experts on religious issues, but havenâ€™t the remotest idea of what theyâ€™re holding forth with such imposing eloquence.
Itâ€™s true that moral guidance and counsel need to be given, but the way you say it and to whom you say it are as important as what you say. Itâ€™s obvious, isnâ€™t it, that the law code isnâ€™t primarily for people who live responsibly, but for the irresponsible, who defy all authority, riding roughshod over God, life, sex, truth, whatever! They are contemptuous of this great Message Iâ€™ve been put in charge of by this great God.
Keith Ferrin had a very special guest post this week about the #1 Way to Help our Kids Love the Bible. It’s all part of a great new book that Keith has written,Â Like Ice Cream: The Scoop on Helping the Next Generation Fall in Love with Godâ€™s Word.
That book is great and what’s almost as great is that Keith wants to give away some books! Â Follow the instructions in the Giveaway Widget below. It will give you an opportunity to earn entries for the giveaway. You earn entries through twitter tweets, facebook likes, and generally being an awesome blog-reading nerd. Enjoy!