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Letter from a Birmingham Jail

While doing some Martin Luther King Jr. reading today, I came across this powerful statement. It might actually be more profound than his ‘I Have a Dream’ speech in 1963. The following is a passage in “Letter from a Birmingham Jail.”

Perhaps it is easy for those who have never felt the stinging dart of segregation to say, “Wait.” But when you have seen vicious mobs lynch your mothers and fathers at will and drown your sisters and brothers at whim; when you have seen hate-filled policemen curse, kick and even kill your black brothers and sisters; when you see the vast majority of your twenty million Negro brothers smothering in an airtight cage of poverty in the midst of an affluent society; when you suddenly find your tongue twisted and your speech stammering as you seek to explain to your six- year-old daughter why she can’t go to the public amusement park that has just been advertised on television, and see tears welling up in her eyes when she is told that Funtown is closed to colored children, and see ominous clouds of inferiority beginning to form in her little mental sky, and see her beginning to distort her personality by developing an unconscious bitterness toward white people; when you have to concoct an answer for a five-year-old son who is asking: “Daddy, why do white people treat colored people so mean?”; when you take a cross-country drive and find it necessary to sleep night after night in the uncomfortable corners of your automobile because no motel will accept you; when you are humiliated day in and day out by nagging signs reading “white” and “colored”; when your first name becomes “nigger,” your middle name becomes “boy” (however old you are) and your last name becomes “John,” and your wife and mother are never given the respected title “Mrs.”; when you are harried by day and haunted by night by the fact that you are a Negro, living constantly at tiptoe stance, never quite knowing what to expect next, and are plagued with inner fears and outer resentments; when you are forever fighting a degenerating sense of “nobodiness” then you will understand why we find it difficult to wait. There comes a time when the cup of endurance runs over, and men are no longer willing to be plunged into the abyss of despair. I hope, sirs, you can understand our legitimate and unavoidable impatience.

Give Me The Change

There is change coming at the church in 2008. And really, who could use more change than the church in general? Specifically at my church, there has been some shakeup on the Executive Board, and some re shifting of ministry departments. The change is all good, and nobody has been fired or released. The leadership is simply trying to put some leaders back into their ministry specialties and out of their current business administration positions. The change affects my areas significantly, as my leader/authority/boss is taking over another area of the church. We are now in the hiring process for a new director of Family Life Ministries, to whom I would report. There will always be fear where there is an unknown; but I’m really excited about the change. Change excites me, because I know that it can be the ignition for great things.

Speaking of change; I just had to see what Demotivation poster was available for such a topic.

Lowered Expectations


I’m a little bit of a leadership junkie. I love to read blogs, books, and magazine articles on leadership and things of that nature.

Maybe that’s why I love the stuff found on despair.com. They also run a blog, and it’s got some pretty funny stuff. Their catch-phrase is, “Increasing Success by Lowering Expectations.”

Here’s my all-time favorite Demotivator. It’s Greatness.

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