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Milestone Transitions

It’s that time of year in our Children’s Ministry when I start to deliberately look at moving our restless Kindergartners to a more mature Elementary environment.  We’ve worked for a few years to make the environments similar in style and substance, but different only in how we teach the content.  In our Early Childhood areas there is a much higher teacher to child ratio (not as high as I’d like!), and we know that kids learn better in a smaller environment.  However, as a kid matures they fit better in large group environments due to better behavior.  That isn’t to say that large group environments are always best for the kid, because we do a small group ministry to these older kids as well.  I’ll save that discussion for another blog post!

Back to the matter at hand: there has been discussion over the years about moving Kindergartners to the Elementary environment earlier, or maybe delaying their graduation to the Elementary areas until 2nd grade and creating a special K & 1st grade learning space.  I personally love this idea, but facility limits as well as a lack of volunteers currently leave this as just an idea at the moment.  Theories abound on what may or not be best, but what we really need to look into are the natural milestones that happen in the life of the Kindergartner learners at our church.  For this transition there are 3 milestone questions to consider.  Over the next few posts, I will lay out the three questions I’ve had to tackle as I look for what will be best for these delicate 5 and 6 year old learners of God’s Word.

Whoa!! Slow Down Time Machine

I’ve discovered the only fool-proof way to make time pass by faster than you ever thought humanly possible. I’m talking the “wake up and 4 years have passed” kind of speed. The type of time bending only seen in grossly over budgeted sci-fi movies. It’s really very easy to make time pass; Have Kids!

Today is Dylan’s 4th birthday, and it has been met by me with disbelief. As I am prone to do on occasion, I sat in his bed watching him sleep last night and could not believe that my second born little boy is already 4 years old. 4 YEARS! Only those with children can truly understand how fast time flies by when you start having kids. I can’t explain it, but I feel like we had his 3rd Birthday party just last month, and his 2nd Birthday party was a few weeks before that. He can’t possibly be 4 years old, can he?

There is a great balancing act happening in our home, where I want time to slow down; but my kids are racing through life on a collision course towards adulthood. As a perfect example; Dylan told me yesterday that he didn’t want to be 4, but wanted to go ahead and be 5 this year. Of course I want him to stay 3 for as long as possible, and cringe at the thought of my baby boy being 4 years old. I know that soon enough time will swallow us all whole, and I’ll look back and think that 4 years isn’t much of a milestone. However on this 29th day of October in the year 2007; I take some solace that I do have 365 days until I have to let him turn 5. Hopefully it will be a slow year.

Happy Birthday Dylan Joel!

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